I read about two different studies involving children and internet activities today. Basically they both end up saying to surf with your kids, talk with them about online safety, and blah blah blah. But before that, here comes the FEAR MONGERING! (They aren’t quite as bad as some articles, but still…)
Article one:
Thirty-six percent from the high school group admitted to meeting with a stranger they had met online. Nearly 40% of these children admitted to speaking with strangers regularly (within the past week).
Fewer than 9 percent of the parents knew that their children had been meeting with strangers, engaging in what could be viewed as very risky behavior.
Sounds scary, especially to a parent. But let’s think about this first. What did the study define as a “stranger”? I have many people whom I’ve never met in RL (real life), but talk to via email, IM, blogs, etc. Among high school kids, I’d guess that type of communication is very common. It’s not unreasonable for two kids who talk this way to meet in RL, especially if they live in the same area. Not the scary Stranger Danger the article tries to make.
The other part of the study focused on the knowledge gap between parents and children.
30 percent of children between the ages of 9 and 18 delete the search history from their browsers in an attempt to protect their privacy from their parents.
You know, if I were a teenager looking for information on topics such as birth control, drugs, sex ed information…I’d surely find a way to try and hide that from my parents, too. That’s the problem with a statistic like that, is the wide age range. I see no problem with older teenagers having some privacy. Would I want my Baby Grrl to come to me for advice? Of course! But I’d also want her to get current, and correct, information about any of those topics online from places like Planned Parenthood if she felt she couldn’t come to me.
I will give the researcher credit. In the end, she does try to play down the importance of the parent’s lack of knowledge:
“This lack of knowledge on the parents’ part may be no different than the situation before the advent of the Web. Parents don’t know what their children are doing on the Net, in the same manner that they don’t know what goes on at class, parties, or clubs.”
Exactly. Kids will find a way to hide things from their parents, technology or no.
On to article two. Sex predators and IM:
[T]he results from a new study in Pediatrics, the official journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics. Michele Ybarra and Kimberly Mitchell used data from 1,588 10- to 15-year-old Internet users to investigate online sexual harassment, and what they found was actually quite disturbing. In the last year, 15 percent of all the kids surveyed reported an “unwanted sexual solicitation online.”
With all the hype against social networking sites like MySpace and Facebook, take note of the ages here. These kids are too young to use those sites, so instead they use more IMs and chat rooms.
At first when I was reading the article, I thought “I wonder if many of the unwanted harassments are from kids their own age, and the study doesn’t take that into account.” Well, that thought was wrong.
One curious side note in the report was the finding that those who do the harassing online don’t bother to hide their ages or intentions; in fact, they’re quite upfront with their potential victims. This was quite a surprise to the researchers, who note that “in the majority of cases referred to law enforcement (95%), adult offenders are honest about being an adult, and in 79% of the cases, they are honest about their intentions to have sex with the youth.”
Um…that’s good? Kind of? At least it makes it easier to catch the offenders, but it’s still a little disturbing.
In the end, if you’re a parent, you should know the drill. Talk to your kids, teach them about being safe, about using their common sense. And if you’re a computer geek, I probably don’t need to tell you all the stuff you can do to the computer to help you out. I know I’ll be doing several things to the computers when Baby Grrl get’s older. That is until she becomes smarter than her folks and figures out a way to get around the roadblocks.
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